FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #1: Set Realistic Goals

"If it doesn't challenge you, it won't change you."

 I'm really excited to go into more depth on the each of the 7 FITspiration Lifestyle Tips that I shared last week.  Today I want to talk about goal-setting.  Making attainable, yet challenging goals will have boomerang effect.  When you hit a bump, you can always go back to your list of goals to remind you WHY you will push through and what you are setting out to accomplish.

I recommend buying yourself a notebook (this will also come into play when I talk about Accountability) A great "template" to use is S.M.A.R.T. criteria.

S. Specific- What's the end game?  Why do you want to make a change? If you want to lose weight, exactly how many pounds? Do you want to run a 5K? Maybe you just want to feel happier and have more energy? (this is a little more generic, but you can write down specific goals on how you will get there) Write it down! This is a great time to reflect and visualize how you will succeed on your own FITspiration journey.

M. Measurable- Time to face the music! Write in your notebook how much you weigh, take measurements (Chest, Waist, Hips, Both biceps, & Both Thighs), and most importantly take pictures! I promise you will be glad you did it.

When I first started out, I took pictures weekly to track my progress and I relied on how well my clothes fit as the main metrics of measure.  When taking pictures, choose the same spot with good lighting and a blank wall.  Do more than 1 pose (Face forward, hands on hips and/or flexing, side profile, and back)  This is a great motivator, because you will lose inches before you lose pounds and can visibly see more of a difference than any fancy scale.

Progress Pics put it into perspective!

Your notebook you can be used for a food journal and to track your fitness progress too. You can reference the previous week and motivate yourself to "run for 1 more minute" or to go up in weight if you start pumping iron (do it!)

A. Attainable- Make your goals attainable by starting with short-term goals.If you currently don't work out at all, make your goal to work out 2 days per week.  That is more attainable than jumping into working out Monday-Friday, 5 days a week! Slowly work your way up to those 5 days a week.  Do you want to run a 5k? You don't start by running 3 miles on Day 1.  You make a smaller, more attainable goal to get you there. Short term goals will also reward short term celebrations too. Yay! Do you want to eat healthier?  Start by cutting down the bad food/drinks with healthier options.  If you drink 6 sodas a day, make a goal to be down to only 1 soda a day by next month.

R. Realistic-Many times there is a sense of urgency. "I want to lose 60 lbs by the 4th of July!"  and it's already April.  As I mentioned in my original post, you want to aim for losing 1-2 lbs per week (or 5-10% of your body weight).  Steady weight loss will stick long-term.  If you find a product or a workout routine that claims you can lose more than this, you will most likely gain most of it back. There is no quick fix, and there are no shortcuts to living a healthier lifestyle.  Don't do something that could potentially harm your body (messing up metabolism by cutting calories or over-exercising is just, NO!)  If you want to  become a "runner", you don't sign up for the 1/2 marathon that's next month.  You start with a 5K, and maybe have a longer-term goal to complete a 1/2 marathon by next year.

T. Timely- There are two time-oriented points I want to share.  Now that we know we need to choose realistic, attainable goals...pick an end date.  I know I said this is a lifestyle change, but it is important when first starting out to choose an end date to stay motivated.  Do you have a beach trip coming up?  Is there a physical that you need to pass in order to have a certain insurance plan? This will help you divvy up your short term goals too. 

Time also means doing what is necessary to food prep and set aside time for exercise.  I literally put an appointment on my iPhone for when I plan to workout.  Wake up an hour earlier, or set aside the first 30 minutes after you put the kids to sleep to do your workout.  One of the many excuses people say is "I don't have time!"  You have to make time.  Do you have time to aimlessly scroll through Facebook for an hour? Guilty as charged. "Tough Love Lex" always comes out when someone says they don't have time. Do you have 1 minute to do a 30 second plank and 10 push-ups before you jump in the shower before work?  Yes you do!

Setting goals is so important when you embark on a journey of health & fitness. Your goals will change as you start "winning the small victories".  There is quote I absolutely love, "It doesn't get easier, you just get stronger."

It's so true.  Did you set out a goal to run for two minutes without a break?  Once you accomplish that, you challenge yourself to add 30 seconds or a minute as a new goal. By the time you know it, you will be able to run your first 5K!

When I first had my daughter via c-section,  I could not hold a plank longer than 30 seconds. That's when I decided to challenge myself. Short-term goal: I wanted to hold a plank for just 5 seconds longer than I did last week.  I continued to add 5 seconds every week.  Before I knew it, I could hold a plank for two whole minutes.  You'll be amazed at how pumped you will feel when you accomplish one of your short-term goals.  All these short-term goals contribute and add up to a BIG change.

Currently, I have a goal of drinking 1 gallon of water per day.  I'll be the first to tell you that I have my own bad habits, and one is forgetting to drink enough water.  I don't know why, but it's daunting to see a whole gallon of water. I already feel overwhelmed thinking about it! Haha. I decided to start drinking out of a smartwater bottle that holds a quart, and my goal is to fill it up 3 times and drink it all be the end of the day.

My fitness goal is to be able to do ONE pull-up by myself.  I am determined!  How will I get there?  Persistence and patience.  I invested in these bands to practice with.  Every gym sesh I had last week, regardless of what my workout was; I practiced a few assisted pull-ups with my new band. I can't tell you how excited I was when I did one more rep yesterday than last Sunday.  Small victories, woo!

What type of goals do you have?  Make sure you share your goals with at least one person in your support system, it's a great way to stay accountable.  Who knows, you may even inspire that person to set their own goal!

Thanks so much for reading, I hope this can help you on your journey to being a healthier, more fit YOU!

7 FITspiration Lifestyle Tips

I have been wanting to put together a list of "tips & tricks" that I have found most helpful throughout my journey of living a healthier lifestyle.  I plan to make individual posts to go into more depth, so this is just a little insight into my thoughts.  I've thought pretty seriously about this and have asked fellow fit friends for their advice too. 

1. Set Realistic Goals 

"If it doesn't challenge you, it won't change you."

Take some time to sit down and write out what goals you'd like to achieve.  Do you have a certain amount of weight you want to lose?  Do want to be able to run your first 5k?  Do you want to be able to do ONE push up? Do you want to be able to wear shorts during the summer?  Do you want to avoid or stop taking medication for a health-related issue? This is also where you will reflect on WHY you will stay committed to your goals.

Everyone has their own, personal idea of what they want to achieve.  Challenge yourself, but be realistic.  Look at the BIG picture instead of an unrealistic deadline.  According to the CDC and many other health articles I have read, you want to aim for losing 1-2 lbs per week (or 5-10% of your body weight).  So if you want to lose 100 lbs in 6 months for your cousin's wedding, you may want to re-think that and use your calculator.  It took me just over ONE year to lose 60 lbs.  That is only 1.25lbs per week. Be patient, my friends.

2. Find Support
"Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher."

I can not emphasize just how important this is.  It's in our nature to look to our loved ones for support, encouragement, and guidance. Especially when we feel lost, vulnerable, and insecure. If you're in a relationship; start this new, healthy journey together. Seek out friends that feel the same way and need a walking partner or a gym buddy. You'll be surprised at how positive reinforcement from your loved ones will keep you motivated.  When (trust me, it will happen) you realize that there are people holding you back, focus on remembering your "why" and lean on your support system.

3. Start Small 

"Small changes can make a BIG difference."

I have never been one of those "cold turkey" or "jump in head first" type of people.  Change can be overwhelming, so I have always advocated to make 1-2 small changes at a time.  Sometimes it is replacing one bad habit with a healthier one in a transition.  If you drink 6 sodas a day(12 oz cans=64 oz), start by cutting it down to 4 or 5 cans and drink more water.  If you eat fast food every day; take time to prep meals and only eat fast food 3-4 times a week and eventually NEVER. 

If you don't exercise at all.  Start by making a goal to work out 1-2 times a week for 10 minutes at a time.  Slowly increase it to 15 minutes.  Or add another day.  See what works for you and challenge yourself.

4. Prep & Plan
"Do something today that your future self will thank you for."

What preparations can you do to help make this lifestyle change easier to stick to? Not only do you want to mentally prepare yourself, you will need to plan ahead in order to overcome excuses. Create a calendar event for your workout, just like you would for a doctor appointment or a business meeting. Go to bed an hour earlier than normal, that way you can wake up early and squeeze a workout in.  Set aside time on Sunday afternoons to prep healthy snacks to keep at your desk or in your purse. Make a weekly meal plan before you go to the grocery store, so you are able to cook at home versus ordering pizza/takeout.

5.  Accountability & Progress
"Strive for progress, not perfection"

Weigh in, get yourself some measuring tape, and take pictures! Yes, I know....it sounds daunting, but this will keep you focus & motivated. If you choose to do 1 out of 3: take pics!  You will be surprised at how easy it not notice how much progress you've made.  Side by side pictures will show you that progress. At first, I did weekly pictures.  It kept me motivated when I noticed a difference, and it also kept me motivated when I didn't see much of a difference.  Another chance to challenge myself and re-adjust my goals. I also highly recommend a food journal.  An oreo here, an extra piece of pizza there can adds up quickly! It will also help to ensure you are drinking enough water.

6. Eating Clean in Moderation
“Everything is good in moderation. Even moderation.”

I've mentioned this before, but I like to live by the "80/20" rule.  80% of the time I eat clean (whole foods with a balance of lean protein, complex carbs, & healthy fats) and 20% of the time I will eat "unhealthier" food in moderation.  When I first started out, and I would to "treat" myself to one cheat meal per week.  Usually, it was pizza and ice cream on Friday nights.  Now that my body is used to eating relatively healthy.  I will indulge here and there, and it tends to be a very small portion.  Life is too short, and I was born with a sweet tooth! Mmm, ice creeeeaaam.

7. Self Love & Acceptance
"Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love."

This is so important, especially as a parent.  Be the example, and have positive self talk.  Love yourself in the body that you are in now. Replace your negative self talk with positive and loving words.  Accept yourself for all the good & bad, but promise yourself that you will commit to becoming the best version of yourself. Instead of saying, "I can't", say "I will do my very best!" Put it out in the universe that you are going to nourish & love your body, because that's what you deserve.

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There ya have it!  I am really looking forward to doing a separate post for each tip.  Keep in mind that this is what has worked for me and my family.  Every journey is different, but I hope some of this will help you along yours.  What tips or tricks have you found to be helpful for you?

The question that matters: Why?

Hope all my fellow mama's had a wonderful Mother's Day full of love and laughter! I'm so blessed to have a great relationship with my mom, and feel so lucky to have her so involved in our daughter's life.  She is a beautiful and wonderful lady!

My mommy and her favorite grand daughter ;)

I had a great birthday/Mother's Day weekend filled with happy memories and great company. I also did what every mom secretly wants: a day of rest! Hehe, but really.  I have been sick all week, so I finally laid on my couch for hours and watched movies/relaxed.  It was perfect.

Last year of my twenties, cheers!

As I was watching a movie and cuddling with the munchkin, I realized she is the answer to the question in my subject line:  Why?

When you make the decision to change something in your life, you must ask yourself: Why?  Sometimes the answer is obvious, sometimes you simply can not pinpoint only one reason.  Why do I choose to be healthy and fit? It's all for my daughter, Miss Sofia Rose.

I have other reasons, of course, but she is the most important one. I want to be healthy for all of my days, so I can be around longer for as many of her days.  I want to have enough energy to run around after her as a toddler or play outside at the park with her for hours on end.  I want to be a healthy example of having confidence with the body God gave her, and to never let anyone make her feel insecure about something she should be proud of.  I want her to nourish her body with healthy food, and to stay active for so many reasons.  To have energy, to be able to focus better, to feel happier from the endorphins released as a direct result from being active, to have an outlet to let go of any negativity that will come into her life, etc.

This is my Why. Have some self reflection or quiet time and figure out what yours is.  Write it on a post-it note and stick it on your bathroom mirror.  When things get challenging and you want to give up, remember your Why. It will give you the strength and motivation to challenge yourself.  To make the healthier choice when tempted.  To wake up for an early workout instead of hitting snooze for 30 minutes.  It will make you stop and think, at the very least, I promise you that!

I plan to write a post about the key factors(in my own, personal opinion) that are important for successfully losing weight, and most importantly, keeping it off.  Having a "Why" is definitely one of those key factors.

Until then, I will leave you with a motivational quote *of course*

Happy Monday!

Lex