FITspiration Tip #6: Eating Clean in Moderation

I have really enjoyed talking more about each FITspiration Lifestyle Tip individually.  It has been a good refresher and has helped me reflect on the things I have learned through trial and error.

Today's post will hopefully help guide those of you asking about my meal plan.   Though I am no nutritionist (I did take a few classes!), I have researched and learned from experts and found what works for me.  Currently I am trying to maintain my weight, but get more definition.  So my calorie intake is much different than a year ago when I was trying to lose excess weight.

 It's important to understand that each person should have a different way of eating depending on their goals.  To lose weight, of course you need to focus on a caloric deficit. Click here for an awesome calculator to determine how many calories you should be consuming based on a few pieces of information.  If you have lost weight and are looking to get some muscle definition, you do NOT want to restrict your calories.  Your body needs protein, complex carbs, healthy fats and enough calories to support lifting heavy weights.  With that being said, here are a few points I have come up with.

1. 80/20 rule 
I may have Maria Kang (no excuse mom)to thank for hearing about this concept.  Basically, I focus on making healthy meal choices 80% of the time.  If you are like me and have a big sweet tooth, it's probably best to plan for the 20%.  Friday nights meant 3 things for me: Pizza, wine, and dessert. I gave me something to look forward to all week! Life should be enjoyed.

1. Eat smaller portions, more often.

I tend to "graze" throughout the day and always eat something at least every 2-3 hours. So about 5-6 meals.  This is important in maintaining your blood sugar, keeping your metabolism strong, and fueling your body with the energy you need to get through your day (and your workouts!). 

I also believe that it helps avoid over-eating.  If you eat breakfast at 6:30am and eat lunch around noon, you are probably starving by then and have a higher chance of over-eating.  Having a snack in between (maybe around 9ish) will help hold you over, and help you make healthier decisions once lunch time rolls around.

2.  Eat whole foods; limit processed junk
Confession:  I do not "eat clean" 100% of the time.  I aim to limit processed food and nourish my body with whole foods.  What is this "whole foods" concept? Here is the definition per google:

"food that has been processed or refined as little as possible and is free from additives or other artificial substances."

Fruits, veggies, whole grains, legumes, etc.  I would add meat(organic) to this list.  Boneless, skinless chicken breast is preferable to a McDonald's chicken nugget.

It's really scary how the food industry has changed in the last 20 years.  According to The Non-GMO Project about 80% of conventional processed food contain GMO's.  Genetically Modified Organisms do not belong in our food.  Something created in a lab can't be healthy for you.  Read your labels!

3.  Protein, Carbs, & Healthy Fats

Here is my generalized answer to anyone wondering about my meal plan (perhaps I will do a more detailed post another day)  As I mentioned before, I am no professional and I do this to maintain a healthy lifestyle. I don't track my macronutrients or carb-cycle, only because I don't know enough about those concepts (hmm, add it to my To Do list)  This is just something I have found that works for me and my family.

For every meal (especially the "main" ones: Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner)  I make sure I eat a lean protein, complex carbohydrate, and a healthy fat. I have a three separate lists to help me choose these items if I need to switch it up. Here is an example of one day:

Breakfast (6:30am)- Overnight Oats
 Chocolate Whey(Protein), Oatmeal & Fruit(Carbs) Ground Flaxseed(Healthy Fat)

or

Scrambled Egg Whites & Turkey Bacon (Protein) Sliced Avocado(Healthy Fat) and 1/2 cup Fruit(Carb)

2nd meal(snack after my workout-9:30ish)
Quest Bar (Protein) and Banana (Carb)
*This is perfect because I am usually on the go with my little tot*

Lunch(12:30ish)- DIY Burrito Bowl
Grilled Chicken(protein) Quinoa(complex carb) and Avocado(healthy fat)

4th meal/2nd snack(around 3:30ish)
Handful of mixed nuts(healthy fats),  1 hard boiled egg(protein) and Mean Green Juice (so many good carbs and vitamins)

Dinner(around 6:30-7ish)-Quinoa & Ground Turkey Stuffed Peppers
Ground Turkey(protein) Quinoa & Bell Pepper (carb), cooked in Olive Oil(healthy fat)

Optional 6th meal(if you had an intense workout or you're just hungry):
1/2 C of cottage cheese with salt & pepper to taste (yay protein!)


There ya have it!  Bottom line: this isn't a "diet" with an expiration date, it is a way of living.  Healthy eating is something that will always be a focal point, especially as we approach the holidays, celebrations, and the like.  Eating healthy 80-85% of the time allows for those occasional indulgences, but doesn't completely compromise being healthy in the grand scheme of things.


I really hope this helps you on your journey to a healthier, happier YOU!

Until next time,

Lex

FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #5: Accountability & Progress

Well, hello, hello!  Today I want to talk more about FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #5: Accountability & Progress.

If you have decided to set some health and fitness goals for yourself, the first thing you want to do is share them with your support system!  If you keep it to yourself, you are more likely to give up and change your mind.  *confession* When I decided I wanted to make a goal of doing ONE pull-up...I didn't even tell my hubby for at least a week!  I kept thinking to myself "Is this really possible?  What if I can't do a pull-up and then I will feel embarrassed."  Don't let your thoughts get the best of you, it's about trying your best.  Even if you don't achieve it today, you will become stronger and learn new skills along the way.

Last fall, I remember looking in the mirror one day and feeling depressed and exhausted from being unhealthy(no exercise and 20/80 rule!), I turned to my hubby and I pleaded with him, "Please, please help me stay on track! Even if I get mad at you in the moment, remind me this is what I want.  This is what I need to feel better about myself."   When I wanted to skip a workout or eat something unhealthy because I was having a "bad day", I turned to him for that reminder. Support systems are amazing!

The next thing you want to do is get a fitness/food journal!  This can be a small notebook (I like writing things down) or you can download a free app like My Fitness Pal.  Or both!  This is a great way to track progress and to hold you accountable with your goals.  I mainly use it as a food journal, so I can see what I am actually eating.  What a wake up call! I did a lot of "Oh, one extra oreo won't hurt" and "What's another handful of chips gonna do?" or how about "I deserve this bowl of ice cream since I worked out today!"  Boy oh BOY, do all these little things add up in the long run. 

#truth

You can also use this to track your workouts.  It's nice to be able to look at last week and aim to do at least 1 more rep, go up in weight, or add more time to cardio (or plank challenge!)

I also used my journal to write down my goals for the week and put down my "stats"  Which included my weight and measurements (waist, hips, chest, biceps, and thighs).  When I first started out, I only allowed myself 1 weigh-in per week (the same day I took progress pics).  Do not, I repeat, DO NOT obsess about the scale.  It is not what defines your success in this journey.  You will most likely lose inches before pounds.  The scale tends to be a distraction for us ladies, don't let it define the way you feel about yourself.  The weight loss will come in due time.

 Most importantly (in my own opinon): take pictures!  This has been my main tool of measuring my progress, because the scale does not tell you that you have lost inches or built muscle.  You won't even see the difference some days, because you see yourself every day!  Ask your hubby, a close friend, or family member to take these for you.  Make sure you do a variety of poses (front, side, & back.  regular posture and flexing).  You will be happy you took these pictures to compare along the way. It's also a great motivator to help you stick with it, or to work harder.

Make sure you pick a room with good lighting, a blank wall, and try to wear a similar outfit each time. There is no scale in the world that can compare with seeing a side by side of all the smaller changes. I remember when I first took a "before" picture after I gave birth.  I wanted to delete them right away. I had tears welled up and I started to feel defeated before I even began. *cue support system*

After seeing fit moms like Natalie Hodson take these same photos and being real about it, I was inspired to keep the pictures and to use it as motivation to start feeling good about myself.  A year and a half later, I can still look back and reflect on where it all began.  I am "that" girl that loves pizza, cheeseburgers, ice cream, chocolate, twiced baked potatoes with all the fixin's, home cooked enchiladas with rice & beans.  I know what it feels like to look in the mirror and wish for the self confidence to wear a tank top or shorts (or a bathing suit).  It wasn't easy facing the music and making the decision to leave my excuses behind and get the wheels turning forward, but I did it. One day at a time.

Celebrate the small victories, because before you know it, they will add up to a BIG change.  Share with your support system what your aspirations and goals are, and ask them to hold you accountable. 

A lot of these tips tie in together, especially when it comes to accountability.  Use your support system to help you stay on track.  Find a workout buddy and put it on the calendar; you will think twice about skipping a workout, I promise you! Take the time to write in a food journal, so you can be honest with yourself and maybe even notice a bad habit that you can replace with a healthier one.

I hope this post helps you on your journey to a healthier, happier you.  Remember, it doesn't get easier; YOU just get stronger.

Next blog post will be a recipe, pinky promise.  I have been adapting to "Terrible Two's" and sporadic nap times with my little one, so working on my blog has been a crap shoot.  C'est la vie right?

Until next time!

Lex

FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #4: Prep & Plan

Hello my fit friends,  I am excited to dive into one of the most important FITspiration Lifestyle tips on today's post!  I am certain that this will ensure that you're giving it your best shot with starting (and keeping) a healthy, happy lifestyle.

Let's face it, we are a busy society.  Whether you are a busy SAHM or a working mom, there is always a never-ending "To-Do" List on top of your every day challenges.  Is it "easier" to go to a drive thru?  My answer is no!  It's not easy dealing with the sluggish feeling you have from eating overly processed food.  It's not easy struggling to wake up early, because of lack of energy due to eating junk.  It's not easy carrying around unnecessary extra weight.  Planning ahead with meal prep will be the key to making sure you are nourishing your body with an abundance of healthy meals.

I have found that setting aside a few hours on a Sunday to prep meals and snacks for the following week, makes my life feel a lot less hectic. I wake up knowing I have a jar of Blueberry Banana Overnight Oats awaiting me. 

I always have some sort of bar in my purse for an emergency snack, like my current fave Peanut Butter & Jelly Quest Bars (which by the way can also be a healthy dessert option, especially if you nuke it for 20 seconds)

Our last few Sundays, we have prepped grilled chicken to be used for a variety of recipes we already use.  Most of the time, the meat is what takes the longest to cook. Plus, we just love grilled chicken!  We also prepare a pot of black beans, diced tomatoes, and quinoa/brown rice medley.  Sofie loves it!

Here are some other meals/snack ideas that can be prepped ahead of time:

Breakfast: 

1. Spinach Breakfast Casserole

2. Banana Oatmeal Muffins

3. Overnight Oats

Lunch/Dinner:

1. DIY Burrito Bowl

2. Lemon Garlic Shrimp over Cauliflower Mash

3. Quinoa & Ground Turkey Peppers

4. Quinoa Fried "Rice"
5. Individual Salad portions

Sides/Snacks:

1. Mean Green Juice (one of our faves!)

2. Creative Carrot Juice

3. Mixed Nuts

4. Protein Bars

5. Individual servings of Veggies or Fruit

You can do something as simple as making individual "grab-and-go" snacks.  I like to make our own Mixed Nuts and put them in tupperware.  Grab a handful to hold me over before dinner.  Get snack-sized ziploc bags and put carrots in there to be readily available as you run out the door.

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The second part of this post can also be geared towards exercise.   There are certain "rituals" and habits that I find can prepare me to commit and succeed in my fitness goals.

I am "one of those" that prefer to workout in the morning, especially now that I have an active toddler that wakes up at 6am.  Allow me to re-phrase and state that I need to workout in the morning!  While I pump iron at the gym, Little Miss gets to have some social interaction with other kids/adults and let out some of that energy (she has a lot!)

Here is a list of what I personally do the night before:

1.Lay out workout clothes.
2. Pack my gym bag.
3. Pack Sofie's bag with her necessities.
4. Refill my purse with snacks (protein bar, banana, nuts)
5. Water bottle on my night stand.

This saves me a lot of time and stress!   It takes maybe 5-10 minutes versus 25 minutes the morning of, which includes a hungry toddler, hungry great dane, cup of coffee for my sanity, and squeezing in quality time with the hubby before he leaves for work.

If you plan to work out in the morning, go to bed an hour earlier so you can wake up and still feel rested.  If you want to work out on your lunch break, eat lunch at your desk while you wrap up emails.  If you want to workout after work, bring your gym bag and go straight to the gym.  Maybe even prep your dinner ahead of time so you can put it together more quickly.

When I finally decided to be more consistent with my routine, I started to make events in my calendar for my workouts.  Much like a lunch date or dentist appointment, it was something I committed to and needed to show up for.  Aaaaand maybe I am a little type A ;)

 

Most importantly, get your mind right! Preparing ahead of time will subconsciously get the wheels turning. As I lay my clothes out for the next morning, I am mentally preparing myself to wake up and start my day off on the right foot.  My hubby prefers to workout during lunch, or after work.  He gets his gym bag ready with everything he needs and brings it with him.

Being a busy mom can be overwhelming and stressful at times, and life happens.  Things happen that I may not be able to control, but at least I will feel as prepared as I can going into each day.  Like anything in life, being consistent will turn these "tips" into habits.  Going to the gym in the morning is now a habit and a part of my routine, much like making my daughter breakfast or going to the grocery store.  It's something I make time for in my daily life and I plan accordingly.

I hope this helps give you ideas on how you can plan or prepare yourself for staying committed to a healthier, happier life.

 xoxo

Lex

Blueberry Banana Overnight Oats

Yum, yum, yum! You are going to love this quick and easy meal prep. If you have a sweet tooth like me, you will really love it.  Here is where I found the recipe (18 others!).  We bought our mason jars (1 pint) at Costco: only $6 for a pack of 12! Below is our recipe for 1 mason jar, so be sure to multiply the amount of days you'd like to prep for.

Blueberry Banana Overnight Oats

Ingredients:

1/3 cup rolled oats

1/3 cup Almond milk

1/3 cup Greek Yogurt

1/3 cup blueberries

1 banana

1/3 cup KIND Peanut Butter Whole Grain Clusters (found at Target)

OR Something else crunchy (like nuts)

Directions:

1. Mix first 5 ingredients together into mason jar (or other air tight container) and secure lid tightly.

2. Let set overnight (at minimum 3-4 hours)

3. Wake up the next morning, top off with clusters and ENJOY!

How easy is that?  Not only is it delicious, but it starts your morning off right with some protein and complex carbs (which you need for energy to workout!).

I'm really excited to try some of the other ideas, maybe something with peanut butter (my fave!)

Hope everyone has a positive and healthy Tuesday!

 

Spinach Breakfast Casserole

Happy Saturday!  Next week I will be focusing on FITspiration Tip #4: Prep & Plan.  So if you want to jump on this train, Sundays are a great day to food prep for the week.  Do your mornings feel chaotic at times like mine do?  Once prepped, all you need it 20 seconds to warm this puppy. That's it.  Here is where I found my inspiration.

Spinach Breakfast Casserole

 

Ingredients:

12 egg whites (we buy them in bulk at Costco) 

2 cups chopped onions (we like sweet onions)

4 cups finely chopped spinach 

1 teaspoon garlic salt

optional:1/4 cup diced jalapeno slices (from a jar, not fresh)

optional: 1 cup shredded parmesan cheese

Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 375*.  Whisk eggs in large bowl.  Stir in other ingredients and mix together.  

2.  Pour into 9x13 pan, sprayed with non-stick cooking spray.

3.  Bake at 375* for 25-30 minutes. Cool on a wire rack. Keep refrigerated. Makes approx. 12 servings

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With a new school year approaching, getting back into the swing of things can sometimes knock you on your booty.   This is a great option to have in your fridge when you are running out of time. It's easy for older kids to grab a slice and pop it in the micro for 20 seconds while you get your toddler ready for school drop-off.

 No more McDonald's drive through when you have a healthy, prepped meal just waiting for you in the fridge!

Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend so far!
Lex

Creative Carrot Juice Recipe!

For all my juicing friends out there, you'll be proud that I stepped outside of my "bubble" and made a new juice.  I dubbed it the "Creative Carrot Juice"  because I had a bunch of carrots to use up and got creative with adding whatever fruits that I had lying around.  It was a success, yay!

Creative Carrot Juice

Ingredients:

8 Carrots

1-2 cups Strawberries

2 large navel oranges

2 apples 

Optional: Ginger, small amount

Apples not pictured.

Yum! This was refreshing and sweet, and my daughter absolutely loved it.  I haven't been successful with offering steamed carrots to Sofie, so this definitely had me doing the "Happy Dance"! Hehe

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I will be posting another recipe this week, I promise.  I decided to take the same approach to blogging as I do with my fitness and healthy eating.  Plan ahead and make time for it!  Sometimes life gets busy, and things happen.  My little one decided to push her only nap about 2-3 hours later and it has thrown me for a loop.  Wooosah. #noexcuse

It's all good though, not gonna sweat the small stuff in the grand scheme of things.  Similar to meeting a road block or obstacle in your fitness journey, being flexible and having the ability to adapt to unexpected changes will help you get back on course. 

Well that does it for today.  Happy Hump Day to all my Mon-Fri peeps.

Lex

FITspiration Lifestyle #3: Start small

"Small changes can make a BIG difference."

After I successfully reached my weight loss goal of losing all 60 lbs from my pregnancy, I had many people ask me HOW?!

My first response is, "Clean eating & regular exercise." That's the short answer.  I usually follow up with my advice to "start small."  All the small changes I have made throughout the last 2 years have all added up to this BIG change for me. I did not start working out 5-6 days a week right off the bat.  I did not go from eating crap food to eating clean 100% of the time (I still don't. 80/20 rule baby!)

I started small.  I chose to replace the processed junk food I ate for my "snacks" with whole foods or my Mean Green Juice.  Did I still have pizza, cheeseburgers, and ice cream?  Yup!  I still do, to this day, in moderation. Of course, that's a whole other blog post. ;)

When I sat down to set my goals, I wrote down "Exercise 3 days a week" and "NO fast food!"  I am a firm believer of transitioning when making a major change in your life.  Even when I stopped nursing Sofie, the process began 3 months before she actually stopped.  I cut out one feeding at a time and weaned her pretty slowly.

Why do I believe this works?

Making small changes will keep you motivated!  You can celebrate small victories and boost your self confidence along the way.  I didn't do a great job of setting my goal of holding a plank.  I think in my mind it was for 1 minute.  When I could only do it for 30 seconds, being able to do it for only 5 more seconds was really exciting and motivating! Eventually, I was able to hold it for 2 minutes.  By only adding 5 seconds at a time.

Unfortunately, our society is accustomed to instant gratification.  We want it, and we want it now!  I want to lose weight, and I want it to happen NOW!  Starting small and celebrating the smaller victories can trick your mind into being too busy focusing on the short-term goal to worry about the looming long-term goal.  By the time you know it, you will have reached a bigger milestone. 

Slowly transitioning into this lifestyle will also help with the "cold turkey shock".  If you try to do too much, too fast; you will feel overwhelmed and most likely give up quickly.  I am sure there are some out there that can "dive in head first".  For the majority of us, too much at once ends up back-firing.

It took me almost a year to grasp this idea.  Sure, I lost weight from breastfeeding and lost some more by exercising and eating somewhat healthy(on and off, fell off the band wagon many times.)  It wasn't until last November that both Rob & I decided to truly make these small changes forever. 

When you sit down to create or re-evaluate a goal,  think "small".  What small change can you make today to help you reach the ultimate goal?

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Here are a few examples of the small changes that have personally helped me:

-Focused on eating 5 smaller meals versus 3 big meals.

-Replaced soda with water, pressed juices, or iced tea.  Soda has absolutely zero health benefits, so it was one of the first things to go.  *side note* I do have soda on occasion, in moderation.  Vodka & Sprite anyone? ;)

- Replace processed foods with whole foods(fruits, veggies, legumes, etc)
*note* Similar processed foods that have "low fat" alternatives are still processed! Low-fat usually means more sugar. -READ the labels-

-I originally started working out 3 days a week, once I was consistent for 1 month, I went up to 4 days.  Do what works for you!

-Cut down and eventually cut out fast food!  I have only had fast food 5 times this whole year. This was also one of the very first things we did.

-Started a plank challenge! Add 5 seconds every week or so.

-Substitute white breads with whole grain bread, whole grain tortillas, and pita bread.

-Substitute mayo with mustard. And most recently, avocado spread.

-Replace instant brown rice with Quinoa.

-Add 1 30 second sprint during my cardio session.

-Ask for a side salad instead of fries.

-Cut down and cut out energy drinks.


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As I mentioned above, these are just examples of what helped me.  Everyone is different, and works on their own personal goals at their own pace.  All that matters as the you do something daily, no matter how small, to get you closer to a healthier, and happier you! 

Hope you're having a fantastic week so far ♥ 

Lex 

Quinoa Fried "Rice"

I will be posting two recipes this week, since I forgot last week.  Sorry! My time management wasn't the best as I prepared for our trip this past weekend.

I love incorporating our staple "grain" (it's actually a seed) Quinoa. Pronounced KEEN-WAH.

Now you can ask your supermarket attendant with confidence...

..you're welcome!

 Hehe, sorry. I can be a litte sassy at times.

We buy ours in bulk at Costco, yay!

One of my favorite "cheat" meals is good ol' Chinese takeout.  If you live in the East Valley, you need to go to J&K Chinese Gourmet on your next cheat night. ;)  We just took Sofie for the first time and all she kept saying was "Mmm!" & "Yum yum yum!"  & "Num num, nom nom" Hahaha, that girl.

Here is a healthy version that we make at home.  Top it off with your choice of protein (chicken, steak, shrimp, tofu, etc). Yum yum, delicioso!  Here is where I found the recipe.

Quinoa Fried "Rice"

Ingredients:

1 cup quinoa (or 2½ to 3 cups leftover cooked quinoa)

1 ½ cups water or low-sodium chicken stock

 ¼ small onion, chopped

2 carrots, peeled and chopped

3 scallions, chopped and divided

3 garlic cloves, minced

½ teaspoon fresh ginger, minced

1 tablespoon olive oil

2 eggs, lightly scrambled (still raw)

½ cup frozen peas, thawed

Sauce:1 ½ tablespoons teriyaki sauce

2 ½ tablespoons soy sauce

¾ teaspoon sesame oil

Directions:

1.  Rinse quinoa a few times in cold water.

2. Bring quinoa and water or chicken stock to a boil in a medium saucepan, and then reduce to a simmer. Season with salt.

3. Simmer for 15-20 minutes until quinoa is fluffy and cooked through. Remove from heat and let set for five minutes or so. Fluff with a fork.  Cool and store in the fridge for 30 minutes.

4.  Mix teriyaki, soy sauce, and sesame oil in a small bowl. Set aside.

5.  Heat ½ tablespoon olive oil in a large sauté pan over a high heat. Add onion and carrot, cook about two minutes. Add 2 scallions, garlic and ginger to the pan. Cook another two minutes. Add in the rest of the olive oil and the quinoa. Stir-fry about two minutes. 

6.  Add sauce and stir-fry until incorporated, about two minutes. Make a well in the center of the quinoa pour eggs in, scramble. Throw in peas, then toss everything together until the peas are warmed through, add remaining scallion and serve.  ENJOY!

This is an awesome recipe to make ahead of time and great for leftovers.  Unlike rice, quinoa keeps in the fridge very well for a few days.

 Yay for recipes!

Time to get back into the groove of clean eating after this weekend.  Holidays like the 4th of July will always have temptations for lots of fried food and yummy(sugary/caloric) drinks.  We attended our friend's wedding in Gallup, NM.  I will confess that I indulged in some cocktails, pizza, and other not-so-healthy foods.

Hubby & I in Gallup, NM

Ya gotta live a little right?  Don't dwell on the not-so-healthy choices you make, just start fresh and focus on the new day in front of you.  Hope everyone had a fantastic weekend!

  Lex

FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #2: Find Support

"Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher."

Along with clean eating and regular exercise, having a support system is necessary for living a healthy, active lifestyle.  It's in our nature to seek love, acceptance, and encouragement to truly thrive. We are only human, after all.  Not only do we need people around to lift us higher, but they will also be able to hold us accountable too!

Building a support system will include a variety of people in your life. Below I will list some examples of who can be a part of your support system.

1. "Social Supporters"-  This refers to friends/family members/co-worker's that you interact with on occasion or even daily (workplace).  I often think about the quote "Live and let live".  At a social gathering, you may choose to pass on dessert or even alcohol (oh my!).  These are the supporters who "live and let live" and say "You have great will power, keep up the good work!"

Alas, you will encounter those that may not understand your new, healthier choices.  "C'mon, you look great! Just have a drink!"  OR "Seriously?! One piece of cheesecake isn't gonna kill you!"  Peer pressure somehow re-surfaces when a new change affects the way you socialize. 

Don't be afraid to say no and stick to your guns.  You can still have a social life and enjoy birthday parties, holidays, celebrations, etc. without over-indulging in fried food, booze, and sweets. Your future self will thank you later. ;)
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2."Workout Buddy"-  I can almost guarantee that there is a workout buddy out there for you! It can be your spouse, best friend, mom, sister, co-worker, etc.  Accountability at it's best.  If you make plans to meet at the gym for Tabata class in the morning, you best believe you are gonna think twice about hitting that snooze button. No one likes to be stood up!

 Having a collective desire and goal to exercise and eat better will be motivating and encouraging for both of you, especially if you're both "new at this".  You don't need a gym membership, it can be as simple as having a walking buddy a few nights a week.  Instead of grabbing happy hour (or maybe before happy hour, hehe) go on a 30 minute walk with your girlfriend and chat about the normal things you do over a drink.

I'm sort of a hybrid-workout buddy, lately.  Last few Mondays I have been meeting my lovely friend Chey for Tabata.  If our children's nap schedules align, my friend Desiree and I will meet up too! When my SIL Michelle isn't traveling to Hawaii or Vegas, we love to hit the weights together.  On the weekends, the hubby and I go together and make it a family affair.

Bicep/Tricep day with my main squeeze

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3. "Fitness Groups & People"- There are so many awesome communities and groups that focus on fitness.  Fit4Mom.com even has a program called "Stroller Strides" that incorporates bringing your child in their stroller while exercising.  Groupon (and the like) offer great deals for boot camps, bikram yoga, etc.  If you can't find a reliable workout buddy, consider looking within your community!

I've also included "Fitness People" in this category.  The majority of us uses social media on the daily, which is how you got to this blog (probably!)  Find someone that inspires you (pick me, pick me! hehe jk) Really though, I love following other fitness peeps to get ideas and motivation.  Fit moms like Natalie Hodson and Maria Kang or beach body coaches like Shaun T and Chalene Johnson.  This is my version of following a celebrity since I don't watch reality TV (Does Catfish count?!)


3. Inner Circle Support- This refers to anyone that lives in your household or someone you are very close with.  Your significant other/spouse especially needs to be on the same page.  Get the whole family to change to a healthier lifestyle together!  Having your fridge and pantry stocked with healthy eats will help you "stick to it."  Confide in your spouse and ask for support and encouragement.  Call your best friend that lives across the country and tell her your goals and aspirations.  These supporters will be your foundation when you have a weak moment and want to give up. Don't be afraid to lean on them.

For me, it was my husband.  I would tell him, "Even if I get mad at you, please remind me why should (fill in the blank)".  He did that for me. "Lex, just press play!" when I was doing T25 at home.  I would give excuses and pout like a child, "But I'm so tired!"  "But Sofie woke up 5 times last night!"  and he would say, "It's only 25 minutes of your day, you will feel better after. I promise!"

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I am so grateful and thankful for his and all the other support that I continue to receive. If it wasn't for their support, I wouldn't be writing this blog post.  They have lifted me up when I have wanted to give up, and supported any decisions that were geared toward being healthier and happier.  Even complete strangers or acquaintances that I have spoken with since starting this blog are a part of my support team.  THANK YOU for believing in me!


Regardless of fitness/healthy eating, you need a positive support system in your life.  Surround yourself with people who love you and have good intentions.  Life is too short to be around people that belittle your ambitions and goals.  It's amazing how much happier you feel when surrounded by like-minded, positive people.  And of course: you will always find support right here!

That does it for this post.  I hope that you're all having an awesome week so far!  4th of July festivities are just around the corner, which will also mean lots of temptation.  80/20 rule to the rescue!

Xoxo

Lex

FITspiration Lifestyle Tip #1: Set Realistic Goals

"If it doesn't challenge you, it won't change you."

 I'm really excited to go into more depth on the each of the 7 FITspiration Lifestyle Tips that I shared last week.  Today I want to talk about goal-setting.  Making attainable, yet challenging goals will have boomerang effect.  When you hit a bump, you can always go back to your list of goals to remind you WHY you will push through and what you are setting out to accomplish.

I recommend buying yourself a notebook (this will also come into play when I talk about Accountability) A great "template" to use is S.M.A.R.T. criteria.

S. Specific- What's the end game?  Why do you want to make a change? If you want to lose weight, exactly how many pounds? Do you want to run a 5K? Maybe you just want to feel happier and have more energy? (this is a little more generic, but you can write down specific goals on how you will get there) Write it down! This is a great time to reflect and visualize how you will succeed on your own FITspiration journey.

M. Measurable- Time to face the music! Write in your notebook how much you weigh, take measurements (Chest, Waist, Hips, Both biceps, & Both Thighs), and most importantly take pictures! I promise you will be glad you did it.

When I first started out, I took pictures weekly to track my progress and I relied on how well my clothes fit as the main metrics of measure.  When taking pictures, choose the same spot with good lighting and a blank wall.  Do more than 1 pose (Face forward, hands on hips and/or flexing, side profile, and back)  This is a great motivator, because you will lose inches before you lose pounds and can visibly see more of a difference than any fancy scale.

Progress Pics put it into perspective!

Your notebook you can be used for a food journal and to track your fitness progress too. You can reference the previous week and motivate yourself to "run for 1 more minute" or to go up in weight if you start pumping iron (do it!)

A. Attainable- Make your goals attainable by starting with short-term goals.If you currently don't work out at all, make your goal to work out 2 days per week.  That is more attainable than jumping into working out Monday-Friday, 5 days a week! Slowly work your way up to those 5 days a week.  Do you want to run a 5k? You don't start by running 3 miles on Day 1.  You make a smaller, more attainable goal to get you there. Short term goals will also reward short term celebrations too. Yay! Do you want to eat healthier?  Start by cutting down the bad food/drinks with healthier options.  If you drink 6 sodas a day, make a goal to be down to only 1 soda a day by next month.

R. Realistic-Many times there is a sense of urgency. "I want to lose 60 lbs by the 4th of July!"  and it's already April.  As I mentioned in my original post, you want to aim for losing 1-2 lbs per week (or 5-10% of your body weight).  Steady weight loss will stick long-term.  If you find a product or a workout routine that claims you can lose more than this, you will most likely gain most of it back. There is no quick fix, and there are no shortcuts to living a healthier lifestyle.  Don't do something that could potentially harm your body (messing up metabolism by cutting calories or over-exercising is just, NO!)  If you want to  become a "runner", you don't sign up for the 1/2 marathon that's next month.  You start with a 5K, and maybe have a longer-term goal to complete a 1/2 marathon by next year.

T. Timely- There are two time-oriented points I want to share.  Now that we know we need to choose realistic, attainable goals...pick an end date.  I know I said this is a lifestyle change, but it is important when first starting out to choose an end date to stay motivated.  Do you have a beach trip coming up?  Is there a physical that you need to pass in order to have a certain insurance plan? This will help you divvy up your short term goals too. 

Time also means doing what is necessary to food prep and set aside time for exercise.  I literally put an appointment on my iPhone for when I plan to workout.  Wake up an hour earlier, or set aside the first 30 minutes after you put the kids to sleep to do your workout.  One of the many excuses people say is "I don't have time!"  You have to make time.  Do you have time to aimlessly scroll through Facebook for an hour? Guilty as charged. "Tough Love Lex" always comes out when someone says they don't have time. Do you have 1 minute to do a 30 second plank and 10 push-ups before you jump in the shower before work?  Yes you do!

Setting goals is so important when you embark on a journey of health & fitness. Your goals will change as you start "winning the small victories".  There is quote I absolutely love, "It doesn't get easier, you just get stronger."

It's so true.  Did you set out a goal to run for two minutes without a break?  Once you accomplish that, you challenge yourself to add 30 seconds or a minute as a new goal. By the time you know it, you will be able to run your first 5K!

When I first had my daughter via c-section,  I could not hold a plank longer than 30 seconds. That's when I decided to challenge myself. Short-term goal: I wanted to hold a plank for just 5 seconds longer than I did last week.  I continued to add 5 seconds every week.  Before I knew it, I could hold a plank for two whole minutes.  You'll be amazed at how pumped you will feel when you accomplish one of your short-term goals.  All these short-term goals contribute and add up to a BIG change.

Currently, I have a goal of drinking 1 gallon of water per day.  I'll be the first to tell you that I have my own bad habits, and one is forgetting to drink enough water.  I don't know why, but it's daunting to see a whole gallon of water. I already feel overwhelmed thinking about it! Haha. I decided to start drinking out of a smartwater bottle that holds a quart, and my goal is to fill it up 3 times and drink it all be the end of the day.

My fitness goal is to be able to do ONE pull-up by myself.  I am determined!  How will I get there?  Persistence and patience.  I invested in these bands to practice with.  Every gym sesh I had last week, regardless of what my workout was; I practiced a few assisted pull-ups with my new band. I can't tell you how excited I was when I did one more rep yesterday than last Sunday.  Small victories, woo!

What type of goals do you have?  Make sure you share your goals with at least one person in your support system, it's a great way to stay accountable.  Who knows, you may even inspire that person to set their own goal!

Thanks so much for reading, I hope this can help you on your journey to being a healthier, more fit YOU!

Quinoa & Ground Turkey Stuffed Peppers

Eek, I am slacking on my blog updates lately.  Sorry!  Here is one of my absolute favorite meals.  It can feed the masses or make awesome left overs.  Best of all, Sofie loves it!  Here is where I found the recipe.

Quinoa is a staple in the Hegarty household.  We have replaced dishes that use pasta or brown rice with this awesome seed.  Yup, you heard it right.  Though it is cooked like a grain, it is actually a seed.  So all my peeps that like the "Paleo Diet aka Caveman Diet" will love this!

Quinoa & Ground Turkey Stuffed Peppers

Here is what the website says about how to cook Quinoa:

"Quinoa must be washed in a strainer before cooking because it is covered with a layer of saponin. This natural coating has a slightly bitter flavor. When you rinse quinoa, it looks a bit frothy in the water. This is the saponin washing away. Quinoa is versatile in the kitchen. After washing, place 1 cup of quinoa in 2 cups of water or vegetable stock in a saucepan, and bring to a boil. Cover the pan and lower the heat to simmer. It takes about 20 minutes to cook until tender.  When cooked, the quinoa has a rich nutty flavor." (citronlimette.com)

Ingredients:

1 Tablespoon olive oil
 ½ cup chopped onion
½ cup diced carrot
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 pound lean ground turkey
½ teaspoon salt
¼ teaspoon ground black pepper
1 teaspoon garlic powder
2 Tablespoons chopped fresh parsley
¼ cup tomato sauce
2 large bell peppers, washed
2 cup cooked quinoa
½ chicken broth
¼ cup shredded 2% reduced-fat Monterey Jack cheese (optional)

 Instructions:

1. Cook quinoa according to instructions.  It takes about 15-20 minutes.  While it cooks, cut the peppers in half, lengthwise & remove seeds. 
2. Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat and add 1 TB olive oil.
3. Add onion, carrot, garlic and cook 2 minutes.
4. Add ground turkey, salt, pepper, garlic powder and brown several minutes until cooked through.
5. Add parsley and tomato sauce.
6. Mix well. Combine cooked quinoa and meat together.
7. Place in a baking dish. Spoon the meat mixture into each pepper half.
8. Pour ½ cup chicken broth on the bottom of the pan. Cover tight with aluminum foil and bake at 350F for 35-40 minutes. Top with cheese. (optional)

 Ta da! We also love to top it off with some hot sauce (Cholula please!)

Our little health nut!

My goal is to post one recipe each week on my blog and will eventually have them all on my FITspiration Mom Pinterest page.

Hope everyone is having an amazing week so far!

Banana Oatmeal Muffins

mmm, Mmm, MMM! This is a super easy recipe and is really tasty with healthy ingredients. It's a win-win! I love to enjoy 1 (ok, sometimes 2) with my morning coffee, and both Rob & Sofie love them as well. Makes me heart happy. :D

Banana Oatmeal Muffins

Oops, I switched the name! Haha

 I originally got my recipe here.

Ingredients:

2.5 cups old fashioned oats
1 cup plain low fat greek yogurt
2 eggs
1/2 cup honey
2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp baking soda
2 TBSP ground flax seed
1 tsp vanilla
2-3 ripe bananas 
1/2 cup mini chocolate chips (yes!)

Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Spray tin with non-stick cooking spray or line 12 muffin tins with silicone or foil liners.
2. Place the oats in the food processor(I use my Vitamix) and pulse for about 10 seconds.  Add remaining ingredients.

3. Process until everything is mixed together and oats are smooth.

4. Divide batter among cupcake liners, and bake for 15ish minutes, or until toothpick comes out clean.

5. Cool on wire rack, and then ENJOY!

I just saw that the blog I swiped this recipe from is now baking at 350 degrees, I will have to try that next time.  My oven bakes things a little quicker, so I tend to shave off 3-5 minutes and check the goods a few times.

This is a great "Sunday Food Prep" item, if you want something quick and on the go.  Plus, it has mini chocolate chips in it!

I love baking, and would like to make an effort to bake more often.  My sweet tooth is always looking for a fix ;)

 In addition to my bake sesh, hubby & I participated in the Tempe International Triathlon yesterday.  It's been a tradition with his side of the family for as long as we have been together(and more)  I think it's an awesome way to encourage each other to stay active and another fun way to spend time together.

Our relay team name was "Tri Anything": Rob swam(and ran for another team), my fellow fit step-mama, Amber, did the bike, and yours truly finished it up with the run. It's something we look forward to every year and every year I get really pumped and vow to do my own triathlon by myself.  One day. Hopes and dreams, people!  It's good to make both short-term and long-term goals. Does 5 years count as long-term? Hehe

Sofie cheering us on, Hubby & I before the run, and the family participants this year!

It's also a tradition to take a pic of us flexing! Good times with a great family. ♥

 Ok, time to keep this Monday as productive as possible.  Make it a great day!

 Lex 

Grilled Chicken Pita with Avocado Spread

You'll come to notice that avocados are a staple in the Hegarty household.  We love us some avocado!  It's my favorite type of fat, haha. Well...it is a healthy fat, of course, and has so many other great health benefits. Loaded with vitamins, minerals, and fiber content.  It is a great food choice that is considered to be nutrient-dense, meaning it provides substantial amounts of vitamins, minerals and other nutrients with relatively few calories. (read more at Avocado Central)

I hafta admit; I am not the main cook in our house( I can cook, but Rob loves to cook and is really great at making up new recipes) So, this is one of the many recipes Rob has thrown together. It is so full of flavorful and filling.  Who says eating healthier has to be bland or boring?

*note* This recipe feeds 2 (we eat smaller portions)

Grilled Chicken Pita with Avocado Spread

 Ingredients: 

1 Boneless/Skinless Chicken Breast

1-2 avocados

1/2 lemon

1-2 TB Olive oil (for sauteing) 

1/2 onion

1 stalk of Kale, chopped (sub Spinach)

1 bell pepper, chopped (long thin pieces)

2 pitas

Salt & Pepper, to taste

Garlic Powder, to taste

Lawry's, to taste *optional

Directions:

1. Chop onions and Kale (and Bell Peppers, we didn't have any this go around) and saute over medium heat with Olive oil.

2. Flatten chicken breast with mallet and sprinkle each side with spices. We use salt, pepper, and garlic salt.  Sometimes we use Lawry's too.  Grill chicken for about 10 minutes. Chop or shred.

3. Put avocado in a bowl and use a fork to mash it up.  Squeeze lemon juice, to taste (maybe 1 tsp?) and mix.

4.  Optional: Use low/medium heat with Olive oil to warm up pitas. Spread Avocado mix onto pita and add all the yummy ingredients.  Add another squeeze of lemon (if you want) or your favorite hot sauce (we love Cholula) and ENJOY!

Our little healthnut enjoyed herself some pita bread, grilled chicken, and avocado too!

When Sofie was weaned off of her bottle, it was impossible for me to get her to drink more than 5 oz of milk per day (according to her doc, it was recommended that she consume an average of 16-24 oz of whole milk) Fortunately, she came around to liking avocado and that's where she gets the majority of her healthy fat intake.

Welp, that does it for this post, until next time my friends!

Lex

My FITspiration story

Hello my peeps, I figured I should take some time to tell you more about me. I grew up being active and have played soccer since I was 8.  I played on club teams year-round, High school Varsity soccer all 4 years (Chandler High), and 2 years at one of our local community colleges (CGCC/Chandler-Gilbert).  I didn't realize how much junk food I ate until I was no longer playing soccer 5-6 days a week .  My freshman 15 was more like sophomore 30!  This was my first experience with weight gain.  Late night bean & cheese burritos from our local mexican joint and beer pong is a normal college requirement right? 

It was during that "party girl" era that I was re-acquainted with my husband Rob (we met at CGCC!) Becoming engaged was my first "FITspiration" aha! moment.  I looked in the mirror and realized I had lost the muscle tone that my dear friend, Soccer, gave me.  I replaced it with an extra 25-30 lbs of bloat caused by way too much soda, alcohol, fast food, etc.  We set a wedding date, only 9 months from our engagement.  Did I have it in me to get in shape for this wedding?!?  I never really had to "work" for this, because playing soccer was something fun and I loved it! Sure, I dreaded those 2-a-days, but I had my coaches & my teammates depending on me and holding me accountable.

Wedding planning was upon me, and I found my dress!  I had to order a size 12.  I was truly happy to be getting married to the love of my life, and felt incredibly blessed knowing that he loved me for who I was as a person and not the for what "size" I was.  Still, I was discouraged by my insecurity. Nothing like a wedding dress to motivate you! 

This was around the time that P90X was becoming really popular, so Rob & I invested in the program and gave it a try.  Oh, how I wish I could find my before pics (seriously a MUST).  And HOLY crap did it kick my butt.  I don't even think I got through the first disc without taking many breaks and needing to modify.  But, I DID IT! 

(L) May 2009, sucking it in and smiling! (R) Feb 2010 and 25 lbs lighter

My dress came in a few months later, and at the fitting they told me I would need to get it tailored to a size 8.  I couldn't believe it.  I accomplished my goal of losing 25 lbs!  Best of all, I had my man right by my side to encourage, motivate, and experience it with me.  He lost 20 lbs before the big day!

(L) Pic from our engagement trip in Maui/(R) Pic from Kaui trip 2 weeks before the wedding

Husband & Wife: 02.19.2010

We were hooked, we decided to give Insanity a try to get "beach body" ready for our honeymoon that we booked later that year.  It was down to the wire, and Rob finished! I fell a week short, because I was too excited for our trip and had major packing to do (terrible excuse, but I'm only human)

This was a life-changer for us.  We like being confident with our bodies, and more importantly, we love feeling good.  We have maintained a relatively healthy lifestyle since then and decided it was time to expand our family. 

Let me just be honest and say that being pregnant almost kicked my butt more that P90x did.  I'm sure I will do a more detailed post of my pregnancy.  I did not eat as healthy as I promised myself I would. I did not workout as often as I said I would.  I gained 60 lbs with my daughter, Sofia Rose (born 10.10.2012) and no, I did not have gestational diabetes! Haha....but seriously, it's ok if the thought crossed your mind ;)

(Top L) Just found out! Feb 2012 & 138lbs  (Bottom R) End of Sep 2012 & approx 190lbs

Best day of our lives: Meeting our precious baby girl!

 It's ok, breastfeeding melts it ALL off right? For some women, yes.  Thank your lucky stars if that's you.  Breastfeeding indeed burns up to 500 calories per day and melts off pounds.  For me, it was 30lbs.  I still had 30 unwanted lbs. I also had a C-Section, so I couldn't just pop an Insanity video and pick up where I left off.

In December of 2012,  I was given the "go" to workout.  So I slowly started doing things like jogging and light weights (copying some P90X moves) I eventually bought Turbo Fire and was introduced to HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training).  I didn't really commit to anything consistent until November 2013.  Becoming a mom changes you (for the better!) and priorities start to shift.  It took me a long time to realize that taking care of myself (physically, emotionally, and psychologically) is a very crucial part of being a good mom/wife.  That first year of motherhood is a blur, from being up every 2 hours to teething every few months. I'm really blessed to be able to stay home with our little love, but it is a 24/7 gig.

Tired, but happy mama!

I managed to lose about 20lbs in that first year.  I hit a plateau and could not shake those last 7-10 lbs and was getting really bored with my workouts. In November of 2013 (right before the holidays), Rob and I looked at each other (ps He gained 15 lbs during my pregnancy!) and had a shared "aha moment".  We were fed up with going through the motions and truly not eating clean.  After almost a year of pizza & takeout being a majority of our meal choices, we went grocery shopping for "Mean Green Juice recipe" ingredients and other healthy staples.  We purged our fridge and pantry of all the junk food temptations and made a plan of action to get back to our healthier lifestyle.

Mean Green Juice for the whole fam!

 Making healthier eating choices and changing up my workout routine to incorporate more weight training helped me reach my goal of losing those last 10lbs.  A good friend of mine and fellow FITspiration mom, Desiree, told me about the Jaime Eason 12 week trainer program and I did the first 2 phases last year.  I really loved learning the basics and creating a foundation with lifting weights.  

Lately, I like to keep it fresh.  I workout 5-6 days a week.  I model my weight training from Jaime Eason workouts, throw in some TurboFire or T25 for cardio, or do some Power Yoga or Tabata at my gym.

So here I am, 1 year and 4 months after starting my FITspiration journey as a new mom. 

Before: 196 lbs / After: 138 lbs

Tankini tan alert!

I have truly enjoyed sharing my fitness/health ventures with anyone who wants to listen, and I love hearing ideas and FITspirational stories from other people too!

Until next time,

Lex